Monday, March 2, 2015

Hospital - Day 2 - Surgery

I am going to attempt to keep this post short because I am just emotionally, mentally and physically exhausted. Chad is currently passed out due to his anti-nauseous medicine, so I thought I would take a quick minute to update the blog. I am typing and checking his breathing every two minutes :) This stuff just makes me nervous.

When we first received this diagnosis and did the research on exactly what this cancer is and what it can do - it scared the living daylights out of me and it still does. It always will, for the rest of my life. From the very first day, once we absorbed the diagnosis - I took on the approach of "It could be much worse"....

Even on Day One, I have always believed God meant for Chad to get through this. There's been so many things along the way that left me in pure awe. While it absolutely, beyond sucks, that Chad has to go through this - it could have been so much worse.

We could have not had bad BBQ. Chad could have not gotten food poisoning or whatever caused his stomach pain. We could have not gone to the ER. Twice. We could have not fought to get him admitted. His Gallbladder could have not failed. The doctors could have not taken out his appendix....

The appendix could have burst. The tumors could have spread. The Blood Tests, CT Scan, PET Scan, biopsies could have shown the cancer metastasized.

Dr Sardi could not have agreed to take on Chad. The VA could have not agreed to send Chad to an out of network doctor. We could have not have had such an incredible amount of love and support in the form of donations for travelling and Chad being out of work and everything else.

Dr Sardi COULD have cut Chad open and seen tumors everywhere. But he didn't. There was nothing he could find to give any indication that the cancer had spread. He performed the right hemi-colectomy. He did create a large incision and while it will be a more difficult recovery than laproscopically, we have comfort in knowing the doctor was VERY thorough. The surgery went as well as it could have. The lymph nodes were removed and they looked clear and were not enlarged. They were sent out for biopsy to see if the cancer has spread there. We will have those results in about a week. The pathology of that will determine the chemotherapy regime.  If there even is one.

God willing, our prayers will continue to be answered. Chad is a warrior. Dr Sardi is a warrior. God is a warrior. Dream Team.

The road to recovery will be long and we still have hurdles to over-come but we're so very very thankful for all of our blessings and we thank you so much for your past, present and future prayers xo

6 comments:

  1. :) God hears our prayers! I'm so glad I was there with you today! And yes, it could be much worse, but you both have been blessed. Everything happens for a reason, good or bad. I love you girlie! xoxo

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  2. You forgot someone when you wrote...

    "Chad is a warrior. Dr Sardi is a warrior. God is a warrior. Dream Team."

    Shannon is a WARRIOR!! I remember you saying you were not superwoman...well, you are Shannon and I think that everyone around you would agree. Keep up the great positive attitude that you have...it is inspiring. So happy that things went well!

    xoxo

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  3. Grrrrr, I write a comment and it asks me to sign in and I lose the comment... lol

    Wow Shannon there are a whole lot of what if's there. Im still trying to get through that part myself with my mom. I can say for every what if you posted its a pound if love you have experienced. I feel Chad is going to be ok and the lab results will be unremarkable. The docs have removed any traced areas and if they do come back positive the next step will be chemo. They might do it anyway as a precaution.

    As for the future colonoscopy schedule ours in Canada appears different. After 50 yrs old we have them every year, but, if we have had signs of cancer they recommend we have one every year below that age. You have experienced a lot if emotion and sadness with this run in so stay on top of it with one every year. There were many what ifs. There won't be any what ifs if it goes undetected for 3 yrs.

    Great news to hear Shannon. My hugs and prayers continue..

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  4. Hi ..I have been reading your daily updates.I am still praying as well as many other people..I have worked in hospital all my life...what your going through is so very hard.I am so pleased your friend came to be with you... My mother had bowel cancer at 85 ...and guess what.she's almost 95.... I no you and Chad will be blessed as well.. Being a care giver is hard on you also Shannon...please take care of your self also...I can't imagine the stress your under...but my thoughts and prayer's are with you and Chad,.much love
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  5. Hi ..I have been reading your daily updates.I am still praying as well as many other people..I have worked in hospital all my life...what your going through is so very hard.I am so pleased your friend came to be with you... My mother had bowel cancer at 85 ...and guess what.she's almost 95.... I no you and Chad will be blessed as well.. Being a care giver is hard on you also Shannon...please take care of your self also...I can't imagine the stress your under...but my thoughts and prayer's are with you and Chad,.much love
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  6. Shan Chad is a fighter, and and his courage comes from within and you and his kids. The road may be long,but you will get through this. You are never alone. X I'm thinking of you all and I'm praying for a speedy recovery and to see that jokster get back to his full self again! Hang in there my darling, I know this is far from easy, but, we're all here with you as well, all the way. Love you guys!

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